Sahih Muslim
The Book on Government (Kitab Al-Imara)
Book Number: 020 / Hadith Number: 4731
A version of the tradition narrated on the authority of Jabir (but through a different chain of transmitters) mentions the undesirability of coining to one's house like a night visitor, but does not contain the words:" Doubting their fidelity or spying into their lapses."