The Rites of Hajj (Kitab Al-Manasik Wa'l-Hajj)
Dawud :: Book 10 : Hadith 2037
Narrated AbuHurayrah:
The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: Do not make your houses graves, and do not make my grave a place of festivity. But invoke blessings on me, for your blessings reach me wherever you may be.